Review: "It Is What It Is" - Rosie Darling
- Kyler Griggs
- May 2
- 2 min read

In "It Is What It Is", Rosie Darling openly says all the thoughts that often go unsaid. Everyone at some point has held on to a one-sided relationship - whether platonic or romantic - longer than they likely should have. Its not always easy to let go of relationships. When there are many different emotions involved, fighting to stay together sometimes seems like the best option to ensure nobody gets hurt. But when that effort is not returned, it quickly becomes clear that maintaining the relationship is only important to one person. At that point, it can be easier to move on. In the song, Rosie sings, "I say, 'It is what is is', because I know what it isn't." This line beautifully and simply sums up this entire complex experience. When you realize that someone has shown you their true self, rather than giving them the benefit of the doubt, it would be easier to accept that their actions are better indicators of their intentions than any idealized version you have created in your head.
Rosie Darling's beautiful, unforgettable voice is one that could sell out stadiums. Each lyric she sings with her soft and delicate tone makes the already raw and vulnerable song significantly more impactful. "It Is What It Is" is not just a song with lyrics to be listened to, but to be felt. The song has an almost ethereal, indie-pop vibe, fitting perfectly with the message of the song. It feels somewhat melancholy, but also peaceful and, in a sense, hopeful. The moments the melody slows down and gets quieter during some verses, then picks back up in tempo and volume with a boost of powerful vocals and instruments during the chorus, feels like switching from mourning a relationship to acceptance. "It Is What It Is" reminds me of a song you would hear during a montage during a film when a character moves on from a breakup and looks forward to the future with hope, rather than holding on to what was.
On April 25th, 2025, LA-based indie-pop singer-songwriter, Rosie Darling, released her latest EP "Roomful of People". Her new song "It Is What It Is" was featured on the EP. Her new EP "Roomful of People" follows her last album "Lanterns", marking a new era for the songwriter. About her latest music, Rosie Darling has said, "These songs feel elevated, like a more mature version of myself." Rosie Darling's discography is honest, showing off so many coming-of-age moments with her naturally confessional songwriting. Whether about topics like relationships, friendships, or adulthood, Rosie Darling always pushes herself forward with her creative songwriting process. She begins with just a word or an idea that quickly grows into another beautiful song with touching, layered lyricism. Rosie describes her recent works as "a little bit outside of the traditional pop structure." Rosie Darling's non-traditional, unique music and lyrics conveys so much authenticity to listeners that makes her an unforgettable artist in the industry
who doesn't just follow popular sounds, but creates them.
Written By Kyler Griggs
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