Relationships can leave us in doubt when the person we once loved has inflicted pain and hurt on us. Relationships that reach their demise may even leave us with trust issues that can affect any potential connections we may develop with others in the future. After experiencing the hurt and betrayal we once did, we somehow find doubt in our hearts that something so good is simply just too good to be true. We grapple with our messy hearts that are left dubious, the relic of pain still palpable, lingering, as we introduce ourselves to new love. To embrace our struggles and move forward with the next chapters our life has to offer– it’s a process that’s a battle in itself. Doubt is ever omnipresent, and exudes its noxious fragrance to create a bubble of reluctance to an aberrant and open mindset. “Used To Be” by Lambert is a song that so exceptionally captures the battle of heartbreak and self-doubt. After leaving a relationship, it’s difficult to find oneself in another one where we are fully capable of trusting the other person. Despite being fully healed, there can be that little susurration of doubt in our minds that makes us question our decisions, question our happiness, and if it’s truly genuine, or simply just an impermanent emotion that will soon crumble as the former once did, and leave us with yet another heartbreak to tend to, and more self-doubt and insecurity.
The song opens with a sort of slow tempo that progresses along with the melodic voice of Lambert, flourishing and mending along with the catchy hook that delivers the impactful message behind the emotive lyrics. All of it blends together to create a sound and emotion that’s so efficacious. Lambert's voice manages to carry the listeners in a puddle of emotions that we once experienced. “Used To Be” is a song that many people can unfortunately open their hearts to and reminisce about the emotions one has experienced. Or, perhaps this song opens up the sensitive window to the emotions one is undergoing currently. Regardless, Lambert is able to transport us and allow us to embrace the struggles we’ve endured, and the relationships we’ve had, all leading up to the mess of sentiments that are so powerfully described in the song. When being disappointed so many times throughout your life, it can be hard to have a positive mindset, as it’s easy to fall into pessimism about your hurting past. Lambert tells a story of trust issues and heartache that a plethora of people can relate to. She takes us into her world of phenomenal storytelling that transports us into the very pits of our delicate hearts.
Grace Lambert, the talented electro-pop artist behind the song, is a singer and songwriter based in London. In February of 2025, Lambert plans to release her first EP titled “Human Nature”. It explores themes of disconnection and alienation. Lambert is exploring the world and it’s lost futures in this debut EP. So far, Lambert has released two songs as part of the EP, one including “Used To Be” and the other track titled “After Dark” which is the first release of the EP. Different from “Used To Be”, “After Dark” explores independence, accepting oneself through solitude, and finding one's voice. As Lambert continues to climb the ladder of success and gain recognition for her undeniable talent, I can’t help but look forward to more of her sound! Follow Lambert’s socials and pre-save her future EP to support this talented musician!
Written By Rosalyn Sanchez
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